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the reason why certain people enter our lives

Hello human beings of the Internet world!

So we are born into this world, no intellectual knowingness to why we were choosen to be alive.

We meet people and watch them come and go

Some stay for a while, some just pass us by.

But why do certain people walk our path at certain parts in our lives?

When they leave, what if we didn’t learn anything or acknowledged the understand why they were in our lives?

Maybe it will take us days, weeks, months, years, or after death to understand why someone walked our path.

Maybe they didn’t enter our lives for us to learn anything or gain something but for them to learn, gain, or believe in something, anything.

Maybe there was no real reason at all!?

BUT

People are the best thing that can happen to anyone

~A quote from Midici’s Pizza Building in Sherman Oaks.~

People are the Best Thing that can Happen to Anyone

People are brought in to our lives to make us happy, smile at one point, even if it was just for a split second.


Recently, a dear friend of mine has been brought back into my life in a way where their presence is near but their physical presence is not.

It was because of a very close friend of her’s, who is also very dear to me, crossed my path once again too!

Lets talk about fate and how this happened,

So my brother and I went to a grocery store that is next to the offices where my Relay for Life meetings were held last year. We made a wrong turn out of the grocery store and into those offices. I thought I would give my brother a detour of the building since we were in the area.

There was my dear friend John, unrecognizable for a second but once my car came up next to his bike I knew we were meant to cross paths again.

He told me about our dear friend who’s no longer with us.

It was fate, you could say, that one simple mistake brought these two people back together.

But my dear friend who is no longer here,

She brought a smile on my face and helped make the world a better place!

We learned from our lives and somehow, collided them together, a year ago and now.

Being back home from college, I have touched base with everyone who has been in my life before college, now including my dear friends whom I worked alongside to help people impacted by cancer not feel alone.


Everyone in our life who crosses our path has some sort of meaning, whether our brains can compensate that meaning into words or as actions we spread.

People might enter our lives for no particular reason or “teaching”, but there are soooo many people in the world, not all have a lesson to teach us.

We may not understand why good or bad people enter our lives but at one point, that person made us smile, and that is the reason why each person enters our lives.

 

Logging out, Helen ❤

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I am happy, even without you

As long as I could remember, you have always told me to embrace life,

so that is what I have been doing

before and after you left.

I thought I wouldn’t be happy again without you

but I am and I think you would be proud of that.

I’ve gone to college, gotten recognition for my achievements, made memories with friends…

and I feel like I don’t deserve it sometimes but

you told me to follow my heart and intuition because somehow they already know what I truly want to become

~as quoted by Steve Jobs~

and these are the results, and I couldn’t be more proud of how you impacted my life and how I am turning out to be.

I am happy, even without you.

But something inside me says I wonder what you would tell me?

People say you would be proud or you are proud but how do they really know?

I know you are but it would be nice to hear it from you.

Oh how I miss you and feel that others around me don’t understand me the way you do but, don’t think that I am any less happy than when you were around because

I am happy, even without you.

The memories you gave me, your inspirational acts, and the life you live through the stories and character features of your loved ones will always be alive.

I am becoming the person I have always dreamed of being, and have been the happiest I have ever been!

Oh how I miss you and wish to share these notions with you but,  I know you know 🙂

I am happy, even without you 🙂


Hello human beings of the Internet world. Absorb this as you please, but one message I want to get across from this is: don’t be mad at yourself for being happy even if loved ones cannot share it with you. Live your life in your happiest form and loved ones will be right beside you.

Logging out, Helen ❤